Why do men like to have sex with a woman's ass?

Because it’s fun. That’s it. It’s enjoyable and feels good. It’s really not rocket science.

I now have a lover who is a passionate and enthusiastic fan of anal sex, and she has an ass that is…um, extraordinarily accommodating and a great deal of fun. So, for the first time in my life, I have a partner I actively enjoy giving anal sex to.^3

Why?

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

Throughout my life, until just recently, I’ve had girlfriends who enjoy receiving anal sex, and I’ve always been willing to do it, though I’ve never been a huge fan; too much work for something I personally didn’t find particularly interesting.^2

The answer to basically any question of the form “why do $people like $sex_thing”^1 is “because it’s fun.”

1. Yes, I prefer underscore_notation to camelCase. It’s easier to read. Change my mind.

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2. Giving, anyway. I’ve always been a big fan of receiving, which is why almost all my lovers have been quite skilled with a strapon, and I even own a patent on a new type of strapon.

3. Yes, this does mean I’ll do things during sex I don’t necessarily actively enjoy myself. I think one of the hallmarks of a good lover is willingness to do things that get your partner hot even if they don’t necessarily rev your motor.